Breaking up with Breastfeeding

Home / Breaking up with Breastfeeding - June 5, 2017 , by yvettelamb

sleepy breastfeeding babyDear Breastfeeding,

This is a break-up letter, although ours is not a bitter end.

We have been through some times, certainly. That spate of hourly feeds was fun, and mastitis sure knew how to throw a good party or three. There were moments when I wished we were formula feeding just to get a break, a solid stretch of sleep, a few hours where nobody needed to touch me. Our relationship was definitely not without its speed bumps.

But of course, there were all the other moments – much better ones – and so many of them. Like how it felt to watch my baby gently suckle to sleep, content, secure and satisfied. Or like how breastfeeding can instantly calm a cry, and soothe like nothing else I have ever known. There’s the way it helped heal a high temperature, and the sense of satisfaction from nourishing my baby – putting milky fat on his baby bones – all from my body.

There was the regular relief I felt at let-down after a gap between feeds, and the comfort of dosing next to my son in the night as he fed beside me. There were all the long feeds in the early days which were so, so tiring – much more than I expected. But with them: cups of tea, feet up on the sofa and the television remote. There was the realisation that I was where I needed to be, doing what I needed to do, and nothing else.

I’m so glad I was able to experience you, and though at times you were undoubtedly challenging, you were ultimately the easiest of options and regularly the quick fix I needed for my baby with no faff, fuss or expense. I know I am lucky that you and I worked out, I am fortunate because it isn’t always that way – no matter the hope and hard work.

This journey has been an important and defining part of my life, and in many ways I will miss it.

Thank you for the special moments, for helping me care for my baby, and for gifting me something that was unique to only me and him.

It is over now, and that is right too. But I am happy it happened and I will cherish its memory.

With love,

A former milk-making-shaking-pumping-jumping mama

P.S. Thanks for all the extra feeding calories. I suppose I should cut back on eating ALL of the cake now…

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2 thoughts on “Breaking up with Breastfeeding”

  1. Abbie says:

    Oh this made me emotional as we’re coming to an end with breastfeeding now too! lovely post xx

    1. Yvette Lamb says:

      Thank you! Hope the last stretch goes OK. It’s such a funny feeling, isn’t it. Though I did feel fine after a couple of days, it’s just knowing I will never do it again!

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